inlovewithmybrother

Anonymous asked:

Your family seems so dysfunctional.... do your parents know about you and your brother? Your friends?

inlovewithmybrother answered:

I don’t see how it’s dysfunctional at all. Call it brotherly love and nothing’s wrong with what we’re doing.

No, our parents don’t know. My mother isn’t comfortable with me being openly gay, my father’s okay with it but I can’t really tell him because he’ll tell her and it’ll just get messy and weird.

One of my ex boyfriends knows about it, however, rather than finding it weird it turned out to be a fetish of his and tried to use that to his advantage. Unluckily for him, my feelings and physical relationship with my brother aren’t purposed for fetishism. It’s not a novelty kind of thing, it’s something very real and it sucked for someone I cared about to come in and try and use it to his benefit.

Another great post from inlovewithmybrother. He’s absolutely correct: There is nothing dysfunctional about brothers experiencing love for each other. If anything is dysfunctional, it’s our society for creating nonsensical barriers that prevent people from expressing themselves sexually when they know in their hearts it’s what they want. If they do it out of love or even just horny lust, then so what?

The comment about the ex-boyfriend is interesting too. A lot of gay men have a fetish for incest, and I’ve found my blog added by a lot of “pig perv taboo fetish” types for whom incest is grouped together with their interests in eating shit, doing meth and barebacking. But for most of us who have experienced this, it’s not a fetish or a morbid fascination - it’s a real expression of love. I don’t want male incest to be taboo or fetishized - I want it to be accepted as a harmless expression of love and male bonding because that’s what it is.

inlovewithmybrother

Anonymous asked:

Have you had sex with your brother?... I must say that I have had sex with mine... more than once, but, I can't see him as anything different but my brother, I'm 3 years younger than him.

inlovewithmybrother answered:

We’ve had sex plenty of times, it’s gotten more frequent as I’ve gotten older. I’m four years younger than mine, and I still see him as my brother, as well as my partner. It’s kind of difficult to explain how I love him or why, but I can’t have the bond I have with him with anyone else.

I just got a message from this guy, and I’m loving his blog already. It’s good to see another blog that advocates for acceptance of male incest. I wish these two the best and hope to see a day when they don’t have to hide their love for each other because people will see how beautiful it is.

As for the anon, his attitude is a healthy one too: Sex is just something they do as brothers. If I was a father, I’d rather have my sons pleasuring each other’s cocks and passionately making out than, say, fighting with each other or smoking weed after school. And they would do that because they would learn it from their dad :)

Anonymous asked:

I'm bi curious and I've always wanted to see my dads cock. He's usually the laid back type until it comes to nudity and stuff, I've barely seen him in his underwear. Once when we were camping he was drunk and he told me I could ask him anything about sex. But I thought asking to see his dick was too far. How can I see his dick? I pretty much just want to see it. I'm not attracted to him, just his cock. I was thinking that when he's asleep I can try to feel it but idk. Any help you can offer me?

I’d suggest getting him to show you next time you guys are alone. Just say, “Hey dad, remember when you said I could ask you anything about sex? Well, how big should your penis be to be normal” or something like that.

Anonymous asked:

Your blog is amazing and now I can let out what I've done with my cousin. We used too have sex when no one was home. We would also blow eachother off and give eachother hand jobs. It was probably some of the best times that I've had at a young age.

That’s what I’m here for. This blog isn’t just to appeal to some incest/taboo fetish, but to provide a forum for guys who had actually had these experiences, so they know they’re not the only ones and that they have no reason to feel bad about enjoying sex with guys in their own family :) Feel free to message me privately or email me if you want to talk about your experiences further :)

Mexican guy gives his cousin a handjob

This is how it should be - sex between guys in the same family should be considered a normal and natural part of life, between fathers and sons, uncles and nephews, brothers and cousins. I learned far more about sex and my body by exploring with my stepbrothers than I ever did in sex ed. Consensual sex between male family members isn’t abuse - it’s healthy male bonding that teaches males not to be ashamed of their bodies or afraid to share their bodies with other males for the purpose of pleasuring themselves and each other.

Anonymous asked:

do you have any advice for a guy that wants to get with his dad? my dads quite open about stuff and doesnt mind me seeing him naked or anything like that.

It’s hard to say, as I’ve never seduced my dad. Anyone have any advice?